Beheaded, Bewildered, Bestirred

Behind the scene of a recent photoshoot I'll soon post, just you wait people (:

Today I'm gonna write about the conversation I had with my sister when she told me
she was confuse about a certain thing in her life especially when it comes to make an important decision
where she has to weigh on people's advice and opinion that make her even more puzzled.

Some things are hard to comprehend and difficult to digest because our limited understanding.
Therefore we must continually upgrade ourselves.
It is too shallow to blame others for what our mind cannot cope.
And yet we refuse knowledge.
I often heard people said "he's using a heavy language" or "he's theory is just too high".
I think our incapability to digest such things forbid us from moving forward,
hinders us from striving higher.

Successful people know that true education 

is what you get for yourself and by yourself. 

It's not by someone 

who gives you or tells you

~Sunday Adelaja~

When you know better you can understand better and that's when you can speak up.
Not everything you heard out there is true. So you need to know better,
push yourself to the edge, and jump to see what's on the other side.
Widen your perspective and see there are numerous of possibilities that life has to offer.
Life really is an adventure and it can't be boring. Unless you're afraid to take the challenge !

There are so much more than just this,
so much opportunities,
plenty of ways,
endless possibilities

This is why freedom provided so we can choose
how we want to live our life without depend on other people's opinion
or stuck with their comments.
And finally learn to be a mature person by being interdependent and
take full responsible of our action and decision.

Sometimes others just trying to help but their way isn't always perfect
or the only concept you must follow.
This is when we need to discern and digest what we really need.
At the end of the day we are the only person who know ourselves better and of course our Creator (:

So worry not, it's ok to make mistakes cause life itself is a never ending learning center.
It's a journey where you get to see scenery and
there are plenty of roads you must go through (people's opinion/theory).
But you must make sure you have a Guide to walk with you along the journey.